Sex

Do Not Turn Childhood Sex Curiosity into Trauma Do Not Turn Childhood Sex Curiosity into Trauma

Aug. 13, 2018

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Do Not Turn Childhood Sex Curiosity into Trauma

The harsh ban on little girls' sexual curiosity seems like a prerequisite for feeling of inadequacy some women keep battling all their lives.

My friend was in the pool with her 5-year-old daughter when the girl shared the “miraculous discovery” with her: “There is an underwater  stream and it feels sooooo… good when it gets on my private parts! Let me show you, mom! It feels a little ticklish but more than that! Did you know, mom? Let […]
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Reading John Gray Right Reading John Gray Right

Apr. 05, 2018

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Reading John Gray Right

In these changing, liberating, gender-fluid times I often see how Gray's "Mars & Venus" ideas are referred as obsolete. I can not agree. But I can remember myself weeping over the pages keenly describing my toxic behavior. It was very tempting to settle at I-Hate-John-Gray phase. I am happy I did not.

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Steve Steve

Oct. 04, 2005

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Steve

May be I should rename this journal from “Salsera’s Diary” into a “Shitty Car Girl Diary?” Well, truth be said, my car is not shitty. My value system is.

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